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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[When does child support end in New York?]]></title>
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            <updated>2026-07-02T19:44:39Z</updated>
            <published>2026-06-26T10:39:09Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Understanding how long child support lasts matters for both parents in any support arrangement. New York follows a different standard than most other states, and that difference can have a significant impact on your finances and planning. Key factors include your child’s age, whether emancipation applies, what your specific agreement says and whether any legal exceptions come into play. Getting…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2026/06/when-does-child-support-end-in-new-york/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">Understanding how long child support lasts matters for both parents in any support arrangement. New York follows a different standard than most other states, and that difference can have a significant impact on your finances and planning. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Key factors include your child's age, whether emancipation applies, what your specific agreement says and whether any legal exceptions come into play. Getting clarity on these rules now can help you avoid costly confusion down the road.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What age does child support end in New York?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;"><a href="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/practice-areas/complex-child-support-issues/" data-wpel-link="internal">Child support in New York</a> typically ends when a child turns 21. That surprises many parents who assume the obligation ends at 18, which is the state's age of majority. Turning 18 means your child becomes a legal adult, but New York law treats that milestone separately from the financial support obligation. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Many other states use 18 as the cutoff, making New York one of the few states with a higher standard. The age of 21 stands as the default rule unless a specific exception applies to your case.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Does child support automatically end at age 21 in New York?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Support generally <a href="https://www.nycourts.gov/new-york-city-family-court/child-andor-spousal-support#:~:text=In%20New%20York%2C%20child%20support%20usually%20continues%20until%20the%20child%20turns%2021%2C%20unless%20the%20child%20is%20legally%20emancipated%20earlier." target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">terminates when a child turns 21</a>, but what happens next depends on your payment method. If a court order routes support through wage garnishment, you may need to take administrative steps to stop those deductions. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">If you make direct payments and your child carries no outstanding arrears, payments may stop without any court action. Reviewing your court order or written agreement carefully can help you determine exactly what steps apply to your situation.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Can child support end before age 21 in New York?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Certain life events can end a support obligation before your child reaches 21. Courts may find that support ends if your child:</span>
<ul>
 	<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Gets married</span></li>
 	<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Joins the military</span></li>
 	<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Becomes financially self-supporting</span></li>
 	<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Leaves home and refuses parental control</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Turning 18 alone does not end your support obligation under New York law.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What is emancipation in New York child support cases?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Emancipation means your child has become legally and financially independent from you before turning 21. Courts examine several factors when evaluating an emancipation claim, including:</span>
<ul>
 	<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Your child's level of financial independence</span></li>
 	<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Where your child currently lives</span></li>
 	<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> The nature of your child's relationship with each parent</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Emancipation cases tend to be highly fact-specific and can become disputed quickly, so courts do not grant them automatically.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">When can child support continue beyond age 21?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">In certain situations, your support obligation may extend past your child's 21st birthday. A child with a disability may qualify for ongoing support under a separate New York statute, sometimes extending that obligation to around age 26. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">If you and the other parent entered a written agreement covering college costs or similar expenses, those contractual obligations may also continue past age 21. Understanding the difference between court-ordered support and separately negotiated obligations can help you stay clear on what you owe.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Do you need to go to court to stop child support?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Whether court action becomes necessary depends on the specifics of your order. You may need to return to court if:</span>
<ul>
 	<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Your order covers multiple children at different ages</span></li>
 	<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Questions remain about your child's emancipation status</span></li>
 	<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> The Support Collection Unit handles enforcement of your payments</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">You may not need court action if your order covers only one child, you pay directly and no arrears exist. Still, reviewing your order carefully before stopping payments is always a sound move.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Speak with a New York child support </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">attorney about your case</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Child support questions — whether about ending an order, handling a dispute or resolving unpaid support — can </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">get complicated</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"> quickly. Getting clear guidance from someone who handles New York family law matters every day can help you move forward with confidence. <a href="/contact" data-wpel-link="internal">Send </a></span><span style="font-weight: 400;">us</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"> an email to talk through your situation.</span>

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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How long does divorce take in New York State?]]></title>
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            <updated>2026-04-27T16:18:41Z</updated>
            <published>2026-04-20T19:42:32Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[The amount of time it takes to finalize a divorce in New York can vary widely. Some cases reach a final judgment in a matter of months while other cases can last for years due to litigation, custody disputes, financial complexity and court congestion. The timeline depends on cooperation, the complexity of the case and the backlog of cases working…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2026/04/how-long-does-divorce-take-in-new-york-state/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">The amount of time it takes to finalize a divorce in New York can vary widely. Some cases reach a final judgment in a matter of months while other cases can last for years due to litigation, custody disputes, financial complexity and court congestion. The timeline depends on cooperation, the complexity of the case and the backlog of cases working their way through the courts. This guide explains average timelines, a step-by-step process overview and key delay factors to provide a better understanding of how long it could take to finalize a divorce in New York.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Average New York divorce timelines</span></h2>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">How long does uncontested divorce take in New York?</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Those who are organized and moving forward with an uncontested divorce can finalize the process in a matter of months. Cases with complete paperwork, prompt service and no defects that require resubmission move forward relatively quickly. The key requirement is full agreement on all issues, including property division and, if children are present matters regarding support, custody and visitation.</span>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">How long does contested divorce take in New York?</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">A </span><a href="https://ww2.nycourts.gov/divorce/divorce_timeline.shtml" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">contested divorce</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> usually takes 12 to 18 months or longer. It may extend beyond 2 years in complex cases involving extensive assets, expert valuation and custody evaluations. Contested matters require litigation steps such as discovery, conferences and court scheduling that drive the timeline.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Step-by-step divorce process in New York</span></h2>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Step 1: Filing divorce papers</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">The case begins when one spouse files a Summons with Notice or a Summons and Complaint with the County Clerk’s office. Filing starts the legal process and sets the case in a specific county. Timing is usually immediate, though preparation can take days to weeks depending on document readiness.</span>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Step 2: Serving your spouse</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">The filing spouse must serve the papers under New York service rules. Service provides notice to the other party that you are moving forward with the divorce process and often takes days, though it can take weeks if a spouse is hard to locate or avoids service. Delays here can stall the entire case before it begins.</span>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Step 3: Waiting period and response</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">After service, the other spouse has a limited time to respond, based on service method and location. If the spouse does not respond, a default path becomes available after required time passes, often a 40-day waiting period. Depending on how the spouse responds, the case can become contested and the length of time it takes to finalize the divorce can increase.</span>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Step 4: Negotiation or default</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Uncontested cases proceed through settlement paperwork, financial disclosures and required forms. If the parties are in agreement, this process can move forward quickly. Contested cases generally move into negotiation through attorneys, court conferences, possible mediation and even litigation, if necessary. Those filing for divorce can pursue default judgment if the other spouse fails to respond to service.</span>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Step 5: Court review and judgment</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">A judge reviews the submitted paperwork for legal sufficiency, fairness where required and compliance with statutory requirements. The court then issues the Final Judgment of Divorce. Review time ranges from weeks to months depending on court backlog, filing accuracy and county practices.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Factors that determine how long divorce takes</span></h2>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Contested vs. uncontested divorce</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Uncontested cases move on paperwork and court review. Contested cases require disclosures, negotiation, hearings and trial preparation.</span>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Child custody and support issues</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Custody disputes can trigger evaluations, temporary orders and hearings. Support disputes often require detailed income analysis and compliance disputes.</span>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Division of assets and debts</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Complex property division increases timeline due to tracing, valuation and the need for appraisal. Business ownership, real estate portfolios and retirement assets often require the use of experts.</span>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Court backlogs and location</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">The county court itself can impact the timeline. Many were </span><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2020/05/08/your-money/divorce-coronavirus-courts.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">delayed during the pandemic</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> and some counties simply process uncontested submissions more quickly than others. This can be in part because other counties face heavy dockets, slower conference scheduling and slower judgment review.</span>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Cooperation between spouses</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Not surprisingly, cooperation affects speed at every stage. From initial service to exchange of documents and settlement drafting - each process can move forward more efficiently if both parties cooperate. </span>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Attorney involvement and strategy</span></h3>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Experienced counsel can reduce delays through accurate filings, realistic negotiation and efficient discovery. Aggressive strategies can increase litigation time, cost and court appearances.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">To put these factors into a practical frame, most delays fall into a small set of recurring issues:</span>
<ul>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Incomplete financial disclosure  </span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Disputes over parenting schedules  </span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Asset valuation conflicts  </span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Service problems  </span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Court scheduling delays</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Each item can expand the timeline by weeks, sometimes months, depending on the court calendar and the quality of submissions.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">When to speak with a New York divorce attorney</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Legal guidance matters in cases with complex assets, custody disputes, high-conflict dynamics, repeated delays and contested proceedings. Every divorce is unique, even when the facts seem simple at the start. As such, it is wise to speak with a <a href="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/practice-areas/high-net-worth-divorce/" data-wpel-link="internal">New York divorce attorney</a> to </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">protect your rights</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">, reduce avoidable delay and pursue the most efficient path to a final judgment.</span>]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Why should you get a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement?]]></title>
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            <updated>2026-04-14T14:48:38Z</updated>
            <published>2026-04-14T14:43:39Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Important Reasons To Consider A Prenuptial Or Postnuptial Agreement Having a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement created, or signing one, is not an indication of impending doom in the marriage. On the contrary, these types of marital agreements can ensure that all parties are clear on what they are bringing into the marriage, what they are retaining throughout the marriage and…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2026/04/why-should-you-get-a-prenuptial-or-postnuptial-agreement/"><![CDATA[<h1>Important Reasons To Consider A Prenuptial Or Postnuptial Agreement</h1>
Having a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement created, or signing one, is not an indication of impending doom in the marriage. On the contrary, these types of marital agreements can ensure that all parties are clear on what they are bringing into the marriage, what they are retaining throughout the marriage and what will be theirs in the event of a divorce. But many people still wonder why they should get a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement.

The lawyer at [nap_names id="FIRM-NAME-1"], is here to provide you with the help and information you need when making decisions that will affect your marriage and finances. New York and New Jersey both allow for <a href="/practice-areas/prenuptial-agreements/" data-wpel-link="internal">prenuptial (premarital) agreements</a> as well as <a href="/practice-areas/postnuptial-agreements/" data-wpel-link="internal">postnuptial (post-marital) agreements</a>. It is important to consult with a lawyer who understands all elements of these documents. Attorney Philip Greenberg has focused a significant portion of his practice to family law matters for more than 40 years. He invests the time to understand his clients’ goals and works closely with them to establish a strong agreement personalized to their long-term wishes.
<h2>What These Agreements Can Do For You</h2>
Below are some of the most important reasons why couples should consider either a prenuptial or a postnuptial agreement:
<ul>
 	<li><strong>Protect yourself: </strong>If you are coming into a marriage with assets, a prenuptial agreement is a way through which you can protect those assets for your future. If you are asked to sign a prenup when someone else is coming into the marriage with assets, the prenup can be structured so that, in the event of divorce, you get your fair share of what is yours.</li>
 	<li><strong>Protect your children and loved ones: </strong>If you have been previously married, a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement can ensure that children from previous marriages or other family members still get the assets to which they are entitled, even if a parent remarries.</li>
 	<li><strong>Prevent additional stress: </strong>Even though divorce is stressful, having a thorough marital agreement in place can help to lessen the stress that is felt by all parties throughout the course of the divorce process, as the document can detail which assets may be retained by each party and what the spousal support obligation will be, if any.</li>
 	<li class="last-child"><strong>Help parties feel that they are marrying for the sake of marriage:</strong> Dealing with monetary issues upfront before a wedding takes place or soon after can either help the bride and groom feel additionally secure that they are marrying for the right reasons or bring to light the reasons that may change their minds about marriage.</li>
</ul>
As mentioned above, these documents are only effective if they are carefully drafted by a knowledgeable attorney. [nap_names id="FIRM-NAME-4"] can explain your options and guide you through the process.
<h2>Schedule A Consultation With Attorney Greenberg Today</h2>
For more information on prenups and postnuptial agreements or to discuss your specific situation, contact [nap_names id="FIRM-NAME-1"], by calling [nap_phone id="LOCAL-CT-NUMBER-1"] or <a href="/contact/" data-wpel-link="internal">using the online form</a> on this site.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Do spouses have to share retirement savings when they divorce?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.philipagreenberg.com/?p=254762</id>
            <updated>2025-05-11T17:31:08Z</updated>
            <published>2025-05-11T17:31:08Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Married couples share almost everything with one another. They talk about their dreams and grievances. They often share their financial resources. They plan a future together. Part of that planning process may involve establishing retirement plans. One spouse may be eligible for a pension. The spouses might also use tax-deferred retirement savings accounts to set capital aside for their golden…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2025/05/do-spouses-have-to-share-retirement-savings-when-they-divorce/"><![CDATA[Married couples share almost everything with one another. They talk about their dreams and grievances. They often share their financial resources. They plan a future together. Part of that planning process may involve establishing retirement plans.

One spouse may be eligible for a pension. The spouses might also use tax-deferred retirement savings accounts to set capital aside for their golden years. Those resources can then become a complicating factor when couples decide to divorce.

Retirement savings accounts represent not just earned income but also future financial stability. People often feel anxious about the idea of dividing retirement accounts or losing access to them when they divorce. Are retirement accounts generally subject to division during divorce proceedings?
<h2>Some of the funds may be marital property</h2>
There is no universal, black-and-white answer regarding the categorization of retirement savings in a divorce scenario. Typically, spouses have to share what they acquired during marriage. Any income earned while married becomes part of the marital estate.

Some people enter marriage with agreements in place to protect their retirement savings. Prenuptial agreements could designate retirement accounts or pensions as separate property. Spouses might also include terms regarding their savings in a postnuptial agreement. Without a marital contract, contributions made during the marriage are likely subject to <a href="https://www.investopedia.com/terms/e/equitable-division.asp" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">equitable distribution laws</a>.

Even if the account is only in the name of one spouse and the other never deposited any money directly into the account, the amount accrued during the marriage is part of the marital estate. Spouses may need to divide the account. They can calculate the marital portion of the account and then use that figure when addressing other assets or marital debts.

In cases where spouses agree to divide an account or a judge orders its division, it is possible to avoid penalties and tax consequences. Spouses can have an attorney draft a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) and can then avoid the income tax consequences and 10% penalty that typically apply to pre-retirement withdrawals.

Learning more about the rules that govern <a href="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/practice-areas/property-division/" data-wpel-link="internal">equitable property distribution</a> can help spouses as they prepare for divorce. Retirement savings are often at least partially subject to division unless there are special circumstances.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Tips for reducing stress while you co-parent your children]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.philipagreenberg.com/?p=254742</id>
            <updated>2025-04-18T15:00:16Z</updated>
            <published>2025-04-18T15:00:16Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Parents who share children will have to determine how to raise their children as a team if they end their romantic relationship. This isn’t an easy situation, but it’s usually what’s best for the children.  Co-parenting can be stressful, so finding ways that you can reduce that stress can help everyone involved to better adjust to the new way of…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2025/04/tips-for-reducing-stress-while-you-co-parent-your-children/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">Parents who share children will have to determine how to raise their children as a team if they end their romantic relationship. This isn’t an easy situation, but it’s usually what’s best for the children. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Co-parenting can be stressful, so finding ways that you can <a href="https://www.2houses.com/en/blog/6-tips-to-reduce-the-stress-of-co-parenting" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">reduce that stress</a> can help everyone involved to better adjust to the new way of life. </span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Communication must be calm</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">Adults who go through a divorce often look forward to not having to communicate with each other once the legal proceedings are completed. While many will get that wish, those who share children will have to continue to communicate with each other for the sake of the children. Using calm communication that focuses on the children is one of the most important ways you can reduce the stress. </span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Focus on your child’s needs, not your own feelings</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">It can be tough to put aside personal history or lingering emotions, but co-parenting is about your child, not the past. Avoid using them as messengers, asking them to choose sides or venting about the other parent. Keeping things child-centered helps them feel safe, supported, and free from adult stress.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Be flexible when possible</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">Life isn’t always predictable, and flexibility can go a long way. If one parent needs to switch a weekend or handle an unexpected situation, try to be accommodating. A little give-and-take builds goodwill and sets a healthy example for your child.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Stay consistent with rules and routines</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">Children thrive on consistency. While your homes may have some differences, try to align on key areas like bedtime, screen time, discipline and schoolwork. When both parents enforce similar rules, kids feel more secure and know what to expect, no matter where they are.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Celebrate the wins, big and small</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">When things go smoothly—whether it’s a shared holiday, a successful school event or simply agreeing on a change in schedule—acknowledge it. Positive reinforcement encourages more cooperation and helps maintain a productive dynamic.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">It’s best to </span><a href="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/practice-areas/child-custody-and-visitation/" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400">get the parenting plan set</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> as early in the situation as possible. Working with someone who’s familiar with these matters may be beneficial, so they can guide you through the options you have. </span>]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Philip A. Greenberg, P.C., Attorneys at Law</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How credit cards may impact equitable property distribution]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.philipagreenberg.com/?p=254738</id>
            <updated>2025-03-08T17:36:03Z</updated>
            <published>2025-03-08T17:36:03Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[During divorce, there are many difficult issues that spouses have to discuss, negotiate or litigate. Choices that affect future financial stability are among the most important matters to address during divorce. The marital estate is typically subject to division when people divorce. The law requires a fair or equitable division of marital income and property acquired during the marriage. Spouses…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2025/03/how-credit-cards-may-impact-equitable-property-distribution/"><![CDATA[During divorce, there are many difficult issues that spouses have to discuss, negotiate or litigate. Choices that affect future financial stability are among the most important matters to address during divorce.

The marital estate is typically subject to division when people divorce. The law requires a fair or equitable division of marital income and property acquired during the marriage. Spouses have the option of either settling property division matters or litigating if they cannot agree on terms.

Equitable distribution rules apply to more than just shared assets. Marital debts are also part of the marital estate. Frequently, credit cards are among the biggest financial obligations that spouses must address during divorce. How can spouses fairly share their credit card debt?
<h2>By identifying separate and marital debts</h2>
The first step toward a fair allocation of marital debts involves reviewing account statements to see what is separate and what is marital. Even when a credit card may be solely in the name of one spouse, it may still <a href="https://wallethub.com/edu/cc/credit-card-debt-divorce/25552" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">be a marital debt</a>.

For example, if one spouse took out a credit card and used it to pay for utility bills and groceries, the debt helped to support the marital household. Typically, any debts accrued during the marriage are subject to division when spouses divorce.

However, there are exceptions for debts that constitute dissipation. If one spouse spent an unreasonable amount on personal purchases immediately prior to filing for divorce, the courts may agree to exclude those debts. The same might be true for hidden debts in cases involving financial infidelity or credit card debts related to adultery in cases involving romantic infidelity.
<h2>By looking at the big picture</h2>
Equitable distribution does not mean an even split of property and debt. Factors including the contributions of both spouses, their health and their earning potential, as well as the length of the marriage, can impact the most appropriate and fair way to divide assets and debts.

Those trying to negotiate an equitable property division settlement must consider how they intend to allocate their property, the other debts in the marital estate property of each spouse and even their custody arrangements for their shared children. The outcome should be fair based on the totality of the circumstances.

People may also need to consider the possibility that their spouses may not follow through on their promise to pay the credit cards as they should. One spouse defaulting on a joint credit card may mean that the other faces collection efforts and other credit consequences long after the divorce.

Reviewing financial records and state statutes with a skilled legal team can help people set reasonable <a href="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/practice-areas/property-division/" data-wpel-link="internal">property division</a> goals. Credit card debt can have a major impact on the distribution of other assets and the overall outcome of property division during divorce.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Philip A. Greenberg, P.C., Attorneys at Law</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What is a postnup? Do you need one?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2025/03/what-is-a-postnup-do-you-need-one/" />
            <id>https://www.philipagreenberg.com/?p=254736</id>
            <updated>2025-03-06T23:16:26Z</updated>
            <published>2025-03-06T23:16:26Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Marriage is a significant commitment, and many couples consider legal agreements to protect their assets and interests. A postnuptial agreement, or postnup, is one such tool. But what exactly is a postnup, and do you need one? What is a postnuptial agreement? Spouses can create a postnuptial agreement, at any time during their marriage. Unlike a prenuptial agreement, spouses design…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2025/03/what-is-a-postnup-do-you-need-one/"><![CDATA[Marriage is a significant commitment, and many couples consider legal agreements to protect their assets and interests. A postnuptial agreement, or postnup, is one such tool. But what exactly is a postnup, and do you need one?
<h2>What is a postnuptial agreement?</h2>
Spouses can create a <a href="https://www.findlaw.com/family/marriage/what-is-a-postnuptial-agreement.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">postnuptial agreement</a>, at any time during their marriage. Unlike a prenuptial agreement, spouses design a postnup to address financial matters after they exchange vows. It can cover various aspects such as:
<ul>
 	<li>Ownership of real estate properties</li>
 	<li>Division of personal financial assets and bank accounts</li>
 	<li>Allocation of debts</li>
</ul>
Postnups can also include terms related to child support and custody arrangements if the marriage ends. This agreement provides clarity and protection, ensuring that both parties understand their financial responsibilities and rights.
<h2>When might a postnup be useful?</h2>
Couples might consider a postnup for several reasons. It can benefit those contemplating a separation or divorce, as it streamlines the process and can reduce legal fees. A postnup may also appeal to couples who have experienced significant changes in their financial situation, such as:
<ul>
 	<li>One spouse receiving a large inheritance</li>
 	<li>A spouse incurring substantial debt</li>
 	<li>A spouse leaving their job to care for children</li>
</ul>
Additionally, a postnup can ensure that children from previous relationships have certain inheritance rights. It can also modify existing prenuptial terms if circumstances have changed since the initial agreement.
<h2>What to include in a postnuptial agreement?</h2>
A well-crafted postnup typically addresses:
<ul>
 	<li>Division of property and assets</li>
 	<li>Parameters for spousal support</li>
 	<li>Division of debts</li>
 	<li>Distribution of assets after death.</li>
</ul>
Deciding whether a postnuptial agreement is right for you requires careful consideration. Consulting with a <a href="/practice-areas/high-net-worth-divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">family law attorney</a> can help you understand a postnup's benefits and potential drawbacks.

A postnuptial agreement can provide peace of mind by protecting your financial interests and clarifying responsibilities. Whether you are newlyweds or celebrating many years of marriage, it is never too late to consider this option.]]></content>
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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Philip A. Greenberg, P.C., Attorneys at Law</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[When should you consider a postnuptial agreement?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2025/02/when-should-you-consider-a-postnuptial-agreement/" />
            <id>https://www.philipagreenberg.com/?p=254734</id>
            <updated>2025-03-03T13:23:32Z</updated>
            <published>2025-02-28T13:13:30Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Marriage brings joy, companionship, and shared dreams. But it also involves shared responsibilities and financial matters. For some couples, a postnuptial agreement can be a wise step to ensure clarity and peace of mind. Here is when you might consider getting one. What is a postnuptial agreement? A postnuptial agreement, or postnup, is a legal contract between spouses. Unlike prenuptial…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2025/02/when-should-you-consider-a-postnuptial-agreement/"><![CDATA[Marriage brings joy, companionship, and shared dreams. But it also involves shared responsibilities and financial matters. For some couples, a postnuptial agreement can be a wise step to ensure clarity and peace of mind. Here is when you might consider getting one.
<h2>What is a postnuptial agreement?</h2>
A postnuptial agreement, or postnup, is a <a href="https://www.findlaw.com/family/marriage/what-is-a-postnuptial-agreement.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">legal contract between spouses</a>. Unlike prenuptial agreements signed before marriage, couples create postnups after the wedding. They outline how assets, debts, and responsibilities will be divided if the marriage ends. This agreement covers real estate, personal assets, bank accounts, and debts. It might also address child support and custody issues, providing a comprehensive plan for both parties.
<h2>Key times to consider a postnup</h2>
<ol>
 	<li>Significant financial changes: If one spouse receives a substantial financial gift, a postnup can specify how to manage these assets. It can also protect the couple if one spouse takes on considerable debt or makes questionable financial decisions.</li>
 	<li>Career changes: When one partner decides to stop working to care for children, a postnup can secure financial resources for that spouse in case of divorce. This agreement ensures fair support for spouses who sacrifice their careers for family responsibilities.</li>
 	<li>Blended families: If you have children from previous relationships, a postnup can guarantee their inheritance rights.</li>
</ol>
<h2>What to include in a postnup</h2>
A well-drafted postnup will cover the division of property and assets, spousal support parameters, and debt allocation. It might also state what happens to assets after one spouse’s death. Yet, certain conditions can invalidate a postnup, such as lack of financial disclosure.<a href="/practice-areas/postnuptial-agreements/" data-wpel-link="internal"> Consulting a family law attorney</a> can help you draft an enforceable and fair agreement.

A postnuptial agreement can provide security and clarity in a marriage. Whether it is due to significant financial changes, career shifts, or blended family needs, a postnup is worth considering. Always consult a family law attorney to ensure your agreement meets legal standards and truly reflects your wishes.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Philip A. Greenberg, P.C., Attorneys at Law</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Do unmarried fathers have custody rights in New York?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2024/12/do-unmarried-fathers-have-custody-rights-in-new-york/" />
            <id>https://www.philipagreenberg.com/?p=254732</id>
            <updated>2024-12-17T05:19:06Z</updated>
            <published>2024-12-17T05:19:06Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Parents going through a change in their relationship status often worry about their relationships with their children. Men, in particular, often feel insecure about their rights as parents. Men who are not married to the mothers of their children may worry that they do not have the right to request shared custody if the relationship ends. The good news for…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2024/12/do-unmarried-fathers-have-custody-rights-in-new-york/"><![CDATA[Parents going through a change in their relationship status often worry about their relationships with their children. Men, in particular, often feel insecure about their rights as parents.

Men who are not married to the mothers of their children may worry that they do not have the right to request shared custody if the relationship ends. The good news for unmarried fathers worried about their parental rights is that New York absolutely recognizes the importance of a father's role in the lives of his children.

Parenting laws in New York are sex neutral, meaning they do not reference the sex of the parents. All parents theoretically have the same basic rights. Unmarried fathers may simply need to take a few extra steps if they want to secure shared custody.
<h2>Fathers who establish parentage have legal rights</h2>
Married men typically have automatic parental rights. The state acknowledges their parentage by virtue of their marriage to the mother of their children. Mothers also benefit from automatic acknowledgment after the birth of children.

Unmarried fathers <a href="https://www.nyc.gov/assets/hra/downloads/pdf/services/child_support/EstablishPaternity_W549E.pdf" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">have to establish parentage</a> with the state in order to make use of their parental rights. Fathers can establish parentage by cooperating with the mothers of their children. They can fill out paperwork together to add his name to the birth certificate at the hospital or anytime while the child is still a minor.

If the mother is uncooperative or uncertain of who the father is, then genetic testing might be necessary. Undergoing tests can establish conclusively that a man is the father of a child. The courts can then acknowledge his parentage, and he can have his name added to the birth certificate.

From there, he can seek shared custody rights in accordance with state statutes. Even in scenarios where mothers do not wish to acknowledge the fathers of their children, men can ask the courts to intervene to help them establish parentage and then shared custody.

Understanding the <a href="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/practice-areas/fathers-rights-family-law/" data-wpel-link="internal">parental rights</a> granted to adults in different circumstances under New York state law can help parents show up for their children. Unmarried fathers have rights as long as they officially establish paternity. Seeking legal guidance can help fathers establish paternity and assert their parental rights.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Philip A. Greenberg, P.C., Attorneys at Law</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Will your spouse get your car if you divorce?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2024/11/will-your-spouse-get-your-car-if-you-divorce/" />
            <id>https://www.philipagreenberg.com/?p=254729</id>
            <updated>2024-11-11T19:51:17Z</updated>
            <published>2024-11-11T19:51:17Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[If you are contemplating divorce, you may – very understandably – be concerned about whether your spouse will be entitled to keep either your car or a vehicle that you share. Concerns including how and when the vehicle was acquired, the value of other marital assets and each spouse’s personal needs will impact the outcome of this scenario, if you…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/blog/2024/11/will-your-spouse-get-your-car-if-you-divorce/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">If you are contemplating divorce, you may – very understandably – be concerned about whether your spouse will be entitled to keep either your car or a vehicle that you share. Concerns including how and when the vehicle was acquired, the value of other marital assets and each spouse’s personal needs will impact the outcome of this scenario, if you and your spouse cannot reach an amicable solution without court intervention. </span>

<a href="https://ww2.nycourts.gov/divorce/info_faqs.shtml" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400">New York law</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> distinguishes between “marital property” and “separate property” in a divorce scenario. Marital property usually consists of assets acquired by either spouse during their marriage, regardless of who made the purchase or whose name is on a title to a particular asset. Separate property, on the other hand, generally consists of assets acquired before marriage, inheritances naming one spouse alone, gifts to one spouse and certain personal injury awards. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">As a result of these distinctions, if you purchased your car before your marriage, it may be considered separate property, and your spouse would generally have no claim to it. However, if you bought the car during the marriage with marital funds, the vehicle will likely be classified as marital property, even if you are the primary driver or the vehicle is in your name. </span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">If the courts need to get involved</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">New York courts honor the principle of “equitable distribution,” which means that the division of a divorcing couple’s assets is meant to be grounded in fairness. This means that if you and your spouse cannot agree about how to divide your marital estate – all of your marital property as a whole – the courts won’t necessarily award an equal 50/50 split of that property. Instead, the courts will consider a host of issues when dividing both the estate overall and individual assets. For example, a judge may give great weight to who primarily uses a particular vehicle and whether one spouse relies on it for work or caregiving responsibilities.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Ultimately, if both you and your spouse want the car, or if it holds significant value, the court may allocate other assets to the spouse who isn’t awarded the vehicle, such as savings or personal belongings, to balance out the division overall. Meaning, that if you are awarded the car, your spouse might receive a greater share of a mutual savings account or another valuable item to offset its value.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">With all of this said, it is important to remember that each divorce scenario is unique. Therefore, it is generally wise to </span><a href="https://www.philipagreenberg.com/practice-areas/property-division/" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400">seek personalized legal guidance</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> before either getting your hopes up or resigning yourself to defeat when it comes to keeping your car once your divorce is finalized. </span>]]></content>
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